I Like This Girl and I Need Help!

by Thanaraja
(Malaysia)

I'm 16 years old! There's this girl at school who is a year older than me! She's shy. She wears braces but I don't mind at all. She has the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen. She is THE most beautiful girl I have ever seen in my life! It was definitely love at first sight! The problem is, because she's shy, it's not really easy to see her around school. I have been dreaming about her for the past week and I can't help it! I don't know what to do but I feel as though my mind is telling me she is the only one for me! And so is my heart! I don't know what to do! I need help advice! Please!

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May 13, 2010
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by: Maria Westcott

Hi Thanaraja,

Yes, you have to visualise the two of you together and believe that it will happen. However, the biggest mistake that people make when trying to utilise the Law of Attraction is --NOT ENOUGH ACTION.

If you don't take any action, in effect you are showing the Universe that it is not that important to you. We also learn by DOING, so as you take action, you learn more about yourself and are subsequently able to refine what it is that you want.

So you will have to take some steps to try to meet this girl and spend time with her.

I hope this helps.

Imagine It and It Is Yours!

Maria
May 13, 2010
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by: Thanaraja

Oh i see, does that mean that the Universe will change circumstances and events so that I can get to know her or meet her in some way? I just have to visualise me and her together and believe the Law is working for me?

thanks for your help!
May 12, 2010
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starstarstarstarstar 		Your Subconscious Mind Will Take Over Now
by: Maria Westcott

Hi Thanaraja,

I'd say that dreaming about her so often is definitely a sign that the Law Of Attraction is working.

When we dream, we are using our subconscious mind. It is the subconscious mind that is responsible for all of the important functions of the human body that are necessary for survival, such as remembering to breathe and making your heart beat.

So the fact that you have turned over the responsibility of manifesting the girl of your dreams to your subconscious mind is a good sign. :)

Imagine It and It Is Yours!

Maria
May 12, 2010
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by: Anonymous

I understand what you mean, Maria! I'm very glad you can relate to my problems. Well since I am living in Malaysia, |'ll tell you that as an Asian country, it's not as open-minded as most Western Countries, but it's also the most open-minded nation in Asia. The girl I like is of Chinese ethnicity, while I am of Indian ethnicity. But race is not a problem as I see her with friends of different races! I would love to get to know her though, but the main problem is she is a very very shy type of person and as iI mentioned before, she is not easy to spot around the school!

But lately, I have been using the Law Of Attraction, and since then, she has appeared in my dreams over 10 times repeatedly!!! And I am believing the Law Of Attraction as hard as a man would lately! Because I feel as though I may need her to complete my life, even though I'm just 16 years old!

Now that she is appearing in my dreams and I see her more often, does it really mean that the Law is working for me? Does it mean the Universe has accepted my wish?

Please reply! And thanks!
May 12, 2010
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by: Maria Westcott

Hi Thanaraja,

Your problem is one that I had myself when I was a teenager and that many young people have today.

When we are young (and also sometimes when we are older) it is so easy to become infatuated with someone and let thoughts of them consume our life. While it can be quite frustrating, it is also a very nice time in our lives (looking back at it now from an adult perspective) and a time when we begin to experiment with and learn about intimate relationships.

My advice to you would be to try to meet her and spend time with her. However, I'm afraid that, though I have been to Malaysia, I don't know the culture well enough to understand what is acceptable and what isn't when it comes to these sorts of things.

Therefore I suggest that you ask someone close to you - an older friend or relative - for his/her advice on how you can manage to spend some time with this girl you have fallen in love with.

As for the Law of Attraction, don't just dream about this girl, and keep wishing and hoping to be with her. That means you don't have her now and this "lack" may keep her out of your life. Instead, imagine that you are already spending time with her and enjoying her friendship and company. Know that it will happen and believe it.

Imagine It and It Is Yours!

Maria

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